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Pre-Wedding Photo Of Couple In Keke Napep Goes Viral - Photos.

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Pre-Wedding Photo Of Couple In Keke Napep Goes Viral - Photos.

Adorable Pre-wedding Photos Of Couple in Keke Napep

9 Christian Sex Advice For Men

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1. Tell Your Wife She’s Beautiful 
Counting your wife’s calories is not cool. Telling her, “I’m sorry, but I have to be honest, and I just don’t find you sexy anymore since you had kids” is not cool. Hint: you were the one who got her pregnant in the first place! Questioning what she orders at a restaurant is not cool. Telling her you’d find her more attractive if she worked out more is not cool. 
 She is your wife. You are supposed to cherish her. So if you want to have a horrible sex life and a horrible marriage, by all means, go ahead and keep criticizing her. But if you actually want to love her sacrificially, and empower her to change, then how about trying this approach: Tell her she’s beautiful. Caress her. Love her. Show her what body parts you absolutely love–because chances are she’s way harder on herself than you ever could be. 
 And if you do really want her to lose weight, then do it with her! Don’t make it her responsibility. Take up a hobby together, and you figure out what to do with the kids for baby-sitting. Suggest you take a walk together after dinner. Start cooking healthy meals. If you don’t find her attractive, then you’re part of the problem. Be part of the solution. 
 2. Touch Her – Without Expecting It to Go Anywhere 
 Do you know how many women just stop kissing or touching in any way because you men have given her the idea that if she kisses you, she therefore owes you sex because she got your engines running? 
 If you give her that impression, then you’ve also pretty much guaranteed you’ll have a lousy sex life. 
 Why? Because women aren’t always sure that they want the touch to go somewhere. So they’ll stop touching to avoid a fight. But if they stop touching, they then get rid of one of the primary ways that they feel safe, close, and even desired. You need touch in your relationship if you’re going to boost her libido. 
 3. Don’t Make her More Exhausted than She Already Is 
 Researchers have discovered that most women’s number one reason for not wanting sex is that they are absolutely exhausted. And when women are exhausted, it’s hard to want sex. We have to be able to concentrate to enjoy sex. If we’re tired we can’t concentrate. That’s just the way our bodies were made. 
 So if you want more sex, then go out of your way to make sure your wife isn’t exhausted. Help with the housework. Put the kids in bed. Help her figure out what commitments she can say no to. Praise her so that she doesn’t feel like she has to work harder to be good enough. Don’t criticize her housekeeping. 
 And go to bed at a decent hour! If you want sex, then playing video games until one in the morning and then expecting her to be there for you is ridiculous. If sex is important to you, then prioritize it by helping her feel less tired. 
 4. Figure out Where the Clitoris is And What To Do with It 
 If your wife isn't having a good time in bed, it may be because she has sexual issues. That's certainly the case with some women. But for the vast majority, when sex doesn't feel good it's because her husband hasn't taken the time to learn how to make her feel good, and she's given up. 
 Why should she want sex a lot if it isn't feeling good for her? So take time to figure out how she likes to be touched (hint: chances are its a lot lighter than you liked to be touched). Figure out WHERE she likes to be touched and HOW she likes to be touched. Take some time exploring her body. And make it your goal to make her feel great. 
 Many women are embarrassed to tell their husbands what they want, and others may not even know what feels good. They need some time to explore. Don't take her silence to mean you're doing everything right. If she's not in ecstasy, you have work to do. Accept that it's your responsibility, not just hers. 
 5. Talk to Her 
 Want more action in the bedroom? Better make sure there's action outside of the bedroom, too. Men make love to feel loved; women need to feel loved in order to make love. Why should she jump into bed with you if you haven't taken the time to figure out what's happened during her day? Just take a walk with her every night and catch up. Listen to her. Give her a chance to share her heart. 
 6. Porn is Cheating. Deal with It. 
 Porn rewires your brain so that what becomes arousing is a picture or an image, and not a real live human being. Porn will make you impotent in your marriage. It will make your wife feel like trash, and will make her feel angry and unwanted. And it is a form of cheating. 
 It is not okay. It is not harmless. It is not something you do just to “rev the engines” or to give your wife a break sometimes. It is wrong. End of story. 
 7. See a Doctor 
 If you’re the one with the lower sex drive, and it’s not because you’re using porn, see a doctor. That’s not fair to your wife. You may be able to live with infrequent sex, but she feels undesired and unfulfilled, and you are responsible for that. Sex is not optional in a marriage. So go to a doctor! They’ve heard far worse before. If there’s a relatively easy fix to your low libido, why would you not take it? Don’t be selfish. Do something about it! 
 8. Sometimes She Can't Make Love. Let it Go. 
 After she’s had a baby, she needs six weeks before she can have sex again. Let her have those six weeks to get used to the baby. You do not need her to “help you” in other ways. 
 If she’s having her period, and she feels distinctly unsexy, go for five days without sex. You really can do it (some women feel aroused during their periods; others just don’t). To demand that she satisfy you in ways other than intercourse when she finds intercourse really distasteful and uncomfortable is a little much. Use some self-control! You can have a healthy sex life for the other 22 days of the month. You really will survive. 
 And if she’s in her first trimester and she’s puking all the time, instead of worrying about your own sex drive, how about getting a cold cloth for her head? Or giving her a massage? Or letting her sleep? She’s sacrificing a lot physically for this baby. It is not too much to ask you to do the same thing. 
 If she’s withholding sex for an extended period of time, yes, you need to confront her and do something about it. But if it’s just occasionally for physical reasons, I think that’s why God says one of the fruits of the Spirit is self-control. 
 9. Love Her Anyway 
 All marriages go through periods where we feel more distant from each other. There may be times when you really do feel as if she’s not meeting your needs–and she very well may not be. 
 Love her anyway. She is your wife. That is your responsibility. And if you love her and cherish her, it will be easier for her to emerge from the funk she’s in. 
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9 Christian Sex Advice For Men

1. Tell Your Wife She’s Beautiful Counting your wife’s calories is not cool. Telling her, “I’m sorry, but I have to be honest, and I...

Mass Wedding Of 109 Couples In Nasarawa State

<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjC8_5CHnc19j4QFLm9GrzRXW6SSO_TInSJ7MmoAI0pjcAcwDifDa-Nivqe2ZwdqqGyz2VwRCYR4TjyDQY0vAskbNoUQKecFpV8xHzQPG3LaXzZ5dvcYAJb_nf8EUb6F1HImTzcWyLA03kb/s2560/%25255BUNSET%25255D.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjC8_5CHnc19j4QFLm9GrzRXW6SSO_TInSJ7MmoAI0pjcAcwDifDa-Nivqe2ZwdqqGyz2VwRCYR4TjyDQY0vAskbNoUQKecFpV8xHzQPG3LaXzZ5dvcYAJb_nf8EUb6F1HImTzcWyLA03kb/s640/%25255BUNSET%25255D.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;"/></a>Most Rev. Mathew Audu, the Bishop of the Catholic Diocese of Lafia, Nasarawa State, on Saturday in Masaka joined 109 couples in a mass wedding in the state. 
 
Speaking during his third pastoral visit to St. Martin`s Catholic Church, Masaka, Audu appealed to relatives of the new couples to allow them to build their marriages and not interfere in their private lives. 
 
“As newly wedded couples, you must love each other just as Christ Jesus loved the church and died to set souls free,” the priest said. 
 
“You must respect each other’s feelings; care for each other, share views and reason together in peace and unity. 
 
“You must not allow a third party to come into your matter; always invite God to intervene in your case. 
 
“Ensure that you are coordinated in all your dealings and make the word of God your standard, your pillar, your faith and your hope. 
 
“If you can keep these entire commandments, your marriage will be perfect and other couples will want to copy from you,” he said.</div>

Mass Wedding Of 109 Couples In Nasarawa State

Most Rev. Mathew Audu, the Bishop of the Catholic Diocese of Lafia, Nasarawa State, on Saturday in Masaka joined 109 couples in a mass weddi...

Bride And Mother Beat Up Groom Shortly After Wedding - Photos.

<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnSGsmSmBxYU-cYk4BvqbzPGgJtgd2Mf6Gl_X9eRs0Z6QmZeLIcxjhFFvBpxNOPGkrRe8uhnPpI1nHs7Vm8JyXCtePwrRpjUcNqSwIw70vCvKxrz31e880YXw3wboG7UfVDVrUumlFZAPK/s2560/%25255BUNSET%25255D.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnSGsmSmBxYU-cYk4BvqbzPGgJtgd2Mf6Gl_X9eRs0Z6QmZeLIcxjhFFvBpxNOPGkrRe8uhnPpI1nHs7Vm8JyXCtePwrRpjUcNqSwIw70vCvKxrz31e880YXw3wboG7UfVDVrUumlFZAPK/s640/%25255BUNSET%25255D.jpg" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;"/></a>This newlywed couple had a huge row in the street, just moments after tying the knot. And to make matters worse, the groom's new mother-in-law joined in the fight too. 
The footage was captured on the dashcam of a vehicle behind the wedding car in the city of Vitebsk, Belarus. 
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The clip shows the car pulling up at a bus stop as the bride and groom jump out.All of a sudden, the bride starts beating the groom with her bouquet of flowers.She is then joined by her mother - who can be seen using her handbag to beat her new son-in-law. 
 
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEtb_pQQKZ8A14NQ6bc6yZ2J8CDF1nyCX3jgHJCPmyTnBnlYP0trtR1AzafzE4HEsqGQbhn1fW3h2dSCdJLfYF6L0zIOA9EN-A_A0_A3RBL7ha94nQ9kgjf2Gi5IL65TRSONLf0Rsn56ZV/s2560/%25255BUNSET%25255D.png" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEtb_pQQKZ8A14NQ6bc6yZ2J8CDF1nyCX3jgHJCPmyTnBnlYP0trtR1AzafzE4HEsqGQbhn1fW3h2dSCdJLfYF6L0zIOA9EN-A_A0_A3RBL7ha94nQ9kgjf2Gi5IL65TRSONLf0Rsn56ZV/s640/%25255BUNSET%25255D.png" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;"/></a> 
After enduring the beating, the groom got back in the car as quickly as possible and left the scene. 
The two women remained at the bus stop.The reason for the attack is unknown</div>

Bride And Mother Beat Up Groom Shortly After Wedding - Photos.

This newlywed couple had a huge row in the street, just moments after tying the knot. And to make matters worse, the groom's new mother-...

Help!; I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids.

<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAjPqKrHlOG-pUAAU0Hwk96mzjthWewOHt12L5Ux-DoGl2ncTu9VhvknQtPumEVAsQo2vcDXDQ_mgGHgUnNdsQGvxIyoRGQ4hWZJs-3wdFEk1Smy32CKehkuuCntuKTermFhMOn3RNru5d/s2560/%25255BUNSET%25255D.png" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAjPqKrHlOG-pUAAU0Hwk96mzjthWewOHt12L5Ux-DoGl2ncTu9VhvknQtPumEVAsQo2vcDXDQ_mgGHgUnNdsQGvxIyoRGQ4hWZJs-3wdFEk1Smy32CKehkuuCntuKTermFhMOn3RNru5d/s640/%25255BUNSET%25255D.png" style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;"/></a>Hello Friends, Pls I need your honest opinions, I'm 26years old and I'm in love with a 30year old lady. She loves me too and she's got 2kids already, she has never been married as the father of her children left her over 8years ago.. 
 
She's a responsible woman as far as I know because she takes proper care of her kids, she's from Akwa ibom and she's a police officer (Asp) but my parents don't want me to be with her, they say because she's older and she's got kids and because she's not yoruba, that she won't be submissive and respectful to me, bla bla bla. 
 
..I'm a fresh graduate am still job hunting though..but once I get a job and settle down, I'm willing to go all the way with her.. 
 
We have been off and on for 4years now..but one thing am sure is that she loves me and her kids love me too..please I'm I on the right path? I hope am not getting myself into trouble? Please I need your candid advise..thank you, Friends. 
 
 
 
Pls if you can advice him, do so before he enters the wrong way... 
 
 
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Help!; I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids.

Hello Friends, Pls I need your honest opinions, I'm 26years old and I'm in love with a 30year old lady. She loves me too and she...