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I was paid four million to sleep with his dog and now I think I am pregnant- undergraduate crys for help.

<br><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixpYMzXutxzkL7FwybT3oVvLEvQP6V-A-OfM-JSJ__g3-x8tLoxpWxbEw-pCnYaru5RUhheXPXvLCytn84CdwRuLJAdw_veeOtQx9KlQnDzm5_NfuXQqGKZAjJGV3vD9YUPso86N9DBNiM/s1600/20200403170255_-1930289445_320_399_webp.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="399" data-original-width="320" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixpYMzXutxzkL7FwybT3oVvLEvQP6V-A-OfM-JSJ__g3-x8tLoxpWxbEw-pCnYaru5RUhheXPXvLCytn84CdwRuLJAdw_veeOtQx9KlQnDzm5_NfuXQqGKZAjJGV3vD9YUPso86N9DBNiM/s1600/20200403170255_-1930289445_320_399_webp.jpg" width="256"></a></div><div class="separator" style="text-align: left; clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="text-align: left; clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I was promised heaven on earth and given 1million naira as an advance payment, he said we could make as much as two million each , I know this sounds strange but it is happening. Anyway, we were told it was just a normal straight scene.<br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">On arrival, it was a different ball game as the act was with animals and pet dogs.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I felt betrayed but was persuaded by my friend to enter into a bargain with them.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">They told us the video needed to be out as soon as possible and their foreign partners expected to see the clip in the shortest possible time.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">They persuaded us and increased our money to four million each. This was too tempting as we were paid in advance.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Well, we gave in to their demands and followed their instructions and got laid with the animals.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">I left-back for Nigeria the next day. The worse aspect is we don’t even have an idea of the area we visited in Ghana.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Now all of a sudden I have strange illness it is as if am pregnant and I have not seen my period.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Could it be am pregnant for the dog. A friend of mine said they are Yahoo boys and not film producers. Please am even scared to visit the hospital. What am I going to say that I took in for a dog?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Please, what do I do?😥💔</div></div>

I was paid four million to sleep with his dog and now I think I am pregnant- undergraduate crys for help.

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9 Christian Sex Advice For Men

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<b>1. Tell Your Wife She’s Beautiful</b><br />
Counting your wife’s calories is not cool. Telling her, “I’m sorry, but I have to be honest, and I just don’t find you sexy anymore since you had kids” is not cool. Hint: you were the one who got her pregnant in the first place! Questioning what she orders at a restaurant is not cool. Telling her you’d find her more attractive if she worked out more is not cool.<br />
<br />She is your wife. You are supposed to cherish her. So if you want to have a horrible sex life and a horrible marriage, by all means, go ahead and keep criticizing her. But if you actually want to love her sacrificially, and empower her to change, then how about trying this approach: Tell her she’s beautiful. Caress her. Love her. Show her what body parts you absolutely love–because chances are she’s way harder on herself than you ever could be.<br />
<br />And if you do really want her to lose weight, then do it with her! Don’t make it her responsibility. Take up a hobby together, and you figure out what to do with the kids for baby-sitting. Suggest you take a walk together after dinner. Start cooking healthy meals. If you don’t find her attractive, then you’re part of the problem. Be part of the solution.<br />
<br /><b>2. Touch Her – Without Expecting It to Go Anywhere</b><br />
<br />Do you know how many women just stop kissing or touching in any way because you men have given her the idea that if she kisses you, she therefore owes you sex because she got your engines running?<br />
<br />If you give her that impression, then you’ve also pretty much guaranteed you’ll have a lousy sex life.<br />
<br />Why? Because women aren’t always sure that they want the touch to go somewhere. So they’ll stop touching to avoid a fight. But if they stop touching, they then get rid of one of the primary ways that they feel safe, close, and even desired. You need touch in your relationship if you’re going to boost her libido.<br />
<br /><b>3. Don’t Make her More Exhausted than She Already Is</b><br />
<br />Researchers have discovered that most women’s number one reason for not wanting sex is that they are absolutely exhausted. And when women are exhausted, it’s hard to want sex. We have to be able to concentrate to enjoy sex. If we’re tired we can’t concentrate. That’s just the way our bodies were made.<br />
<br />So if you want more sex, then go out of your way to make sure your wife isn’t exhausted. Help with the housework. Put the kids in bed. Help her figure out what commitments she can say no to. Praise her so that she doesn’t feel like she has to work harder to be good enough. Don’t criticize her housekeeping.<br />
<br />And go to bed at a decent hour! If you want sex, then playing video games until one in the morning and then expecting her to be there for you is ridiculous. If sex is important to you, then prioritize it by helping her feel less tired.<br />
<br /><b>4. Figure out Where the Clitoris </b><b>is And</b><b> What To Do with It</b><br />
<br />If your wife isn't having a good time in bed, it may be because she has sexual issues. That's certainly the case with some women. But for the vast majority, when sex doesn't feel good it's because her husband hasn't taken the time to learn how to make her feel good, and she's given up.<br />
<br />Why should she want sex a lot if it isn't feeling good for her? So take time to figure out how she likes to be touched (hint: chances are its a lot lighter than you liked to be touched). Figure out <b>WHERE</b> she likes to be touched and <b>HOW</b> she likes to be touched. Take some time exploring her body. And make it your goal to make her feel great.<br />
<br />Many women are embarrassed to tell their husbands what they want, and others may not even know what feels good. They need some time to explore. Don't take her silence to mean you're doing everything right. If she's not in ecstasy, you have work to do. Accept that it's your responsibility, not just hers.<br />
<br /><b>5. Talk to Her</b><br />
<br />Want more action in the bedroom? Better make sure there's action outside of the bedroom, too. Men make love to feel loved; women need to feel loved in order to make love. Why should she jump into bed with you if you haven't taken the time to figure out what's happened during her day? Just take a walk with her every night and catch up. Listen to her. Give her a chance to share her heart.<br />
<br /><b>6. Porn is Cheating. Deal with It.</b><br />
<br />Porn rewires your brain so that what becomes arousing is a picture or an image, and not a real live human being. Porn will make you impotent in your marriage. It will make your wife feel like trash, and will make her feel angry and unwanted. And it is a form of cheating.<br />
<br />It is not okay. It is not harmless. It is not something you do just to “rev the engines” or to give your wife a break sometimes. It is wrong. End of story.<br />
<br /><b>7. See a Doctor</b><br />
<br />If you’re the one with the lower sex drive, and it’s not because you’re using porn, see a doctor. That’s not fair to your wife. You may be able to live with infrequent sex, but she feels undesired and unfulfilled, and you are responsible for that. Sex is not optional in a marriage. So go to a doctor! They’ve heard far worse before. If there’s a relatively easy fix to your low libido, why would you not take it? Don’t be selfish. Do something about it!<br />
<br /><b>8. Sometimes She Can't Make Love. Let it Go.</b><br />
<br />After she’s had a baby, she needs six weeks before she can have sex again. Let her have those six weeks to get used to the baby. You do not need her to “help you” in other ways.<br />
<br />If she’s having her period, and she feels distinctly unsexy, go for five days without sex. You really can do it (some women feel aroused during their periods; others just don’t). To demand that she satisfy you in ways other than intercourse when she finds intercourse really distasteful and uncomfortable is a little much. Use some self-control! You can have a healthy sex life for the other 22 days of the month. You really will survive.<br />
<br />And if she’s in her first trimester and she’s puking all the time, instead of worrying about your own sex drive, how about getting a cold cloth for her head? Or giving her a massage? Or letting her sleep? She’s sacrificing a lot physically for this baby. It is not too much to ask you to do the same thing.<br />
<br />If she’s withholding sex for an extended period of time, yes, you need to confront her and do something about it. But if it’s just occasionally for physical reasons, I think that’s why God says one of the fruits of the Spirit is self-control.<br />
<br /><b>9. Love Her Anyway</b><br />
<br />All marriages go through periods where we feel more distant from each other. There may be times when you really do feel as if she’s not meeting your needs–and she very well may not be.<br />
<br />Love her anyway. She is your wife. That is your responsibility. And if you love her and cherish her, it will be easier for her to emerge from the funk she’s in.<br />
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9 Christian Sex Advice For Men

1. Tell Your Wife She’s Beautiful Counting your wife’s calories is not cool. Telling her, “I’m sorry, but I have to be honest, and I...

10 Powerful Rules to Make Your Marriage And Relationship Stronger

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Here are 10 Good Rules to Make your marriage and Relationship Stronger<br/>
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1) Put God First<br/>
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Most people who want to protect their marriage will say that their spouse is more important than their job. Unfortunately, it seems that people who are in ministry (pastors, missionaries, etc.) will say that in a list of priorities their wife is sometimes at the top of the list and sometimes their ministry is. If you put God at the top of your priority list, He will show you where your emphasis should be at any given time. If God is truly first, then the other priorities will fall into place.<br/>
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2) Live within Your Means<br/>
One of the major causes of divorce is money problems. Live with the money you have. Even though you think that expensive gift (that you can’t afford) will help endear your spouse to you, it more often than not will drive a wedge of insecurity in your relationship<br/>
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3) Keep Personal Problems Personal<br/>
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Don’t share your marriage problems with your co-workers. If you are seeing a marriage counselor then it is important to be open and honest. But when chatting with your friends at the water cooler or the hair salon, you need to guard your negative words about your spouse. Long after the problem is resolved your friends will remember. They weren’t part of the healing process and therefore they won’t know how to forget.<br/>
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4) Divorce is Not an Option<br/>
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Never enter a marriage with the thought that you can get divorced if things don’t work out. Regardless of your interpretation of the biblical passages dealing with divorce, you should make it a personal commitment to your spouse and to God that you will not consider divorce as an option. Enter the marriage with the understanding that you are making a solemn vow before God to your spouse that you will stay together until death separates you. <br/>
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5 ) Not 50-50<br/>
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The Bible says that it is a man’s responsibility to love (Ephesians 5:25) and it is a woman’s responsibility to submit (Ephesians 5:22). If the husband will commit to love then it makes it much easier for the wife to submit. If the wife will submit, the husband will have less trouble loving her. The beautiful thing about this is that God does not say, “a man should love his wife if she will submit.” Or, “a woman should submit to her husband if he loves her.” Each spouse’s responsibility is independent of what the other one does.<br/>
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When a couple looks at marriage as a 50-50 agreement then they will always play off of how the other treats them. However, when they see the marriage as their sole responsibility, then they will have a much stronger and happier marriage.<br/>
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6) Guard Your Heart<br/>
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Protect your eyes, ears and mind. Men, you need to learn to look away when your eyes are drawn to other women in an inappropriate way. Ladies, you may hear sweeter words from your co-worker than you do from your own husband. Remember to whom you made a promise to love—even when times are difficult.<br/>
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7) Forget the Past<br/>
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Isn’t it amazing how, all of a sudden, you can remember things from the past that you thought were forgotten when an argument arises between you and your spouse? Forget the wrong that he or she has done to you in the past and focus on the present and future.<br/>
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8) Compliment in Word and Action<br/>
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The word “compliment” can mean a couple of different things. First it can mean to say nice things to one another. It can also mean to do something that helps the other to be stronger or look better in the eyes of others. Both senses of the word compliment are important in a marriage.<br/>
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9) Love One Another<br/>
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Make a decision to love one another even if your spouse does not deserve your love.<br/>
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10) End the Day with a Clean Slate<br/>
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The Bible says in Ephesians 4:26 to not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Make it a goal to clear the air with your spouse on a daily basis. Fortunately, most days there will not be a need to clean the slate. For those days where tensions are high make an agreement with one another that you will work out your differences before going to bed.<br/>
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Culled from:  Lifeloveandmarriage </div>

10 Powerful Rules to Make Your Marriage And Relationship Stronger

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